Get in pairs and take turns being the speaker and the listener. As usual, the speaker begins with a monologue. If you are the listener, after the speaker’s monologue, you loop about what you heard the speaker was feeling. In other words, instead of starting your looping with, “What I hear you say is . . .” start with, “What I hear you feel is . . .” Suggested topics for monologue: • A difficult work situation or a conflict you are having with a boss, co-worker, or person who reports to you • A time when you could feel someone else’s pain, or
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Try listening and the mb tell speaker how she /feels/ about topic/event, not just what she is saying happened.