On the flipside, I’m going to a big, boozy party this weekend and I’m not remotely nervous about it. No future-tripping at all. I know it will be fun. I’m not catastrophizing. I’m beginning to understand that when I tell myself something is going to be really hard, it turns out to be really hard. Whereas, if I just shelve it and think ‘I will worry about that when I get there’ I never worry about it, because I get there and everything is fine.
