“Good to know he’s not a jerk to everyone.” “Actually, you’d be surprised at what a good guy he is,” says Dee. “I can tell he hasn’t thrown you in jail and abused your sister like Frankenstein’s monster.” “He makes hard choices so the rest of us don’t have to,” says Dum. That shuts me up. Wasn’t I wishing for someone else to make the hard choices for me?

