Most of us feel that we can’t tell the people who work for us or with us the truth because (a) they’re not smart enough to understand it, (b) they’re not mature enough to understand it, or (c) it wouldn’t be nice. What’s so wrong with this? After all, humans want to be nice. We want to treat one another well, and we think that means making one another feel good. But this desire to make people feel good is often as much a desire to make ourselves feel good as to do the right thing. It often leads to people actually feeling worse, because they’re not correcting a problem in the way they’re
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Compare to how many directors talk in front of staff and mgt in order to avoid stepping on mgts toes
