Finally, let me tell you the only thing you ever need to know. Here: in any situation, you should behave in a manner that befits you. You follow this principle and you’ll know right from wrong; you’ll know what choice to make. When they elicit anger, hate or other negative emotions in you, at that time, ask yourself a simple question: if I could make a completely independent choice, unaffected by the conduct and actions of the other person, how would I behave? Almost always, you will find that you can behave in your way; you don’t have to carry yourself any differently. The pure ones, the
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