I wear a patch on my jacket now. I found it underneath a pile of records in Tyler’s apartment when his mom came to try and clean everything out but instead cried with me in a circle of his old t-shirts. It’s a patch that says “DESTROY WHAT DESTROYS YOU” in bold and sharp white letters. He got it for free at some NOFX show that we hated in 2003 because we took the girl working the merch table to score weed a few hours before the show and I imagine it was the least she could do.