With the End in Mind: Dying, Death, and Wisdom in an Age of Denial

by Kathryn Mannix

Now that I understand how minutely attentive to detail the watchers are, how active and probing their attention is, how exhausting the responsibility feels, I am a better servant to their needs and questions, and so much more patient with their frequent requests to check for any sign of discomfort or distress. This last vigil is a place of accountability, a dawning realisation of the true value of the life that is about to end; a place of watching and listening; a time to contemplate what connects us, and how the approaching separation will change our own lives forever. How intently we serve, who only sit and wait.