Lauren Bates

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You are not the one who decides if your contributions are of use. That is the task of other people, and is not an issue in which you can intervene. In principle, there is not even any way you can know whether you have really made a contribution. That is to say, when we are engaging in this contribution to others, the contribution does not have to be a visible one—all we need is the subjective sense that ‘I am of use to someone’, or in other words, a feeling of contribution. YOUTH: Wait a minute! If that’s the case, then what you are calling happiness is … PHILOSOPHER: Do you see it now? In a ...more
The Courage to Be Disliked: How to Free Yourself, Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness
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