The foo foo was not about a pampered star’s outlandish demands; it was about this hydraulic engine being well maintained, fed, and rested enough to pull an entire train. To have that sense of comfort in unknown lands—this was a perk I dearly appreciated during the years when we were a couple. I looked forward to walking into a dressing room that had been preset with all the big and small things that made me feel cared for. It was lovely to check into a hotel and feel like we were coming home to our own life, at least, even if we were far from our own home in Minnesota. After our marriage
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