If they don’t feel they have an area of obvious strength, they should ask, “What can I do at least as well as most people?” This can then lead to other bigger questions like, “What might be my purpose? What do I need help with? How can I get myself to do what I want and/or need to do?” It’s at the intersection of interest, talent, and self-awareness that kids are able to find a sense of direction. What they find in their youth may not be the area they ultimately develop, but it’s an important step.

