Not Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty... And Start Speaking Up, Saying No, Asking Boldly, And Unapologetically Being Yourself

by Aziz Gazipura

If I express anger, others will find a way to hurt me, so we avoid all actions that might lead to conflict or difficult conversations. Or our map tells us: If I disappoint someone, they’ll fire me, dump me, or leave me in some way.