You need a new set of rules. Better yet, you need a list of rights, things that you are allowed to do in any situation. A list of rights encourages authenticity, freedom, self-expression, and being who you really are in the world. It preserves your self-respect, personal power, and autonomy. It moves you forward and lets you create the life you want. Ready? Let’s do it now. Your New List If you could wave a magic wand and instantly become free of fear, guilt, or the need to make others see you a certain way, how would you be?