Here is the Approval Seeker’s typical list of success criteria for avoiding disapproval: 1. No one has a negative thought or judgment about me. This includes my appearance, my attire, my job and income, the way I speak or move, my actions or choices, or any other qualities about me. 2. No one feels any negative or uncomfortable emotions in my presence due to me. No fear, discomfort, uncertainty, aversion, irritation, upset, confusion, or dislike. 3. No one demonstrates any non-verbal signs of disapproval. No one furrows their brow, curls their lip, or has any other physical sign of judging or
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