“I just have one question for you. Have you had the surgery yet?” “Um. I don’t think that is any of your business,” I replied, stunned. To this day, it always amazes me when people think they are entitled to information about my body. I would never ask a stranger about their genitals. But I quickly got the sense that this woman didn’t care if she was imposing, let alone offending me. “Oh, I think it is my business,” she insisted. “And if I ever see you in the women’s bathroom with me, I’ll chop it right off.”
