For some non-asexual people, sexual attraction is such an integral part of life that they can’t help but imagine an asexual life as depressing and fear-inspiring, so it’s not surprising when some respond with concern while urging asexual people to get help. But if asexual people are relieved and happy to find they don’t have to force themselves to “be sexual” to lead fulfilling lives, it’s a lot more likely that trying to help by pushing them toward sexual experiences at all costs will be of no help at all.
