Imagine the case of a heterosexual man who is not attracted to other men in the least. He can know he has no attraction to men without trying to have sex with them because his feelings of disinterest or repulsion are very likely to prevent him from enjoying the experience. He does not feel he needs to have sex with a man to prove he is not attracted to men or to be sure that he wouldn’t enjoy it. He is trusted, without trying it, to understand, express, and live according to his own feelings. And he is not accused of being close-minded due to unwillingness to try sex with a man, nor is he
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