If you are in a relationship and you have come out to your partner(s), you should try to be understanding at first if they are upset by it. Let them be upset, try to be reassuring, and tell them you’ll try to figure out together how everyone involved can be happy during the next conversation. If they seem understanding, though, and want to figure out how to negotiate right away, one great thing to do is have each of you figure out your must-haves, your dealbreakers, and what you’re willing to compromise.
