How to Get Sh*t Done: Why Women Need to Stop Doing Everything so They Can Achieve Anything

by Erin Falconer

When we’re moving at breakneck speed, making it hard for ourselves to check in with our actual desires and opinions, that void is more easily filled by others. If you’re not sure what you think or of what you feel, it’s much easier for someone else to tell you what you should think and feel.

‘What would I do if I knew no one would judge me?’ ”

And as I evaluated my sorry situation, I realized the biggest problem was that I was apologizing not necessarily for what I had done, but rather for who I was. This, of course, is absolutely unacceptable. It

the creating of a plan is not actually the difficult part. What is very challenging is deciding which dreams you’re going to follow.