Brad feels at the mercy of Pam’s “I don’t feel sexy” mood. “Every night, her iPad is there between us, like a sex shield. I bought her lingerie and asked her to wear it for me, but four weeks later it’s sitting on the chair, still wrapped. She only wants to spoon, which means ‘you soothe me, then we go to sleep.’ I can’t be in a relationship where I’m so sexually frustrated, but she tells me she can’t do anything about it! She feels like she is not enough for me, although I tell her every day she is all I want.”
