Many men struggle to understand how the woman who can’t be bothered in the marital bed is suddenly having a torrid affair in which she can’t get enough. For years, they’ve been thinking she’s just not interested in sex, period; now, with new evidence in hand, they reconsider—“she must not be interested in sex with me.” In some cases, a woman’s roaming desires may indeed be a reaction to an unimaginative husband, but not always. In fact, Stefan is a romantic who loves to set the stage for his wife’s pleasure, but her typical reaction is “let’s not make a production out of this. Shall we?” With
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