If we don’t camouflage well, we tend to find ourselves ridiculed, shamed, ostracized, or abused. If we do camouflage well, we can disguise ourselves right out of identification, not to mention out of the compassion, resources, and insight diagnosis can bring. Instead, our misunderstandings are misread. Our intentions mistaken. We are vulnerable to the presumptions we’ve allowed others to make about us about our abilities to discern friend from foe and predator from lover, about how much direction we really do need,
