their child “indistinguishable from his peers” or “school ready” at the “right” age. It is worthy to want to help your child. It is important to work to help your child achieve her full potential. But also, it is crucial to teach your child to say no—with whatever voice your child is able to use—and be heard. It is vital to respect your child’s autonomy and not sacrifice their safety for your learning goals. Children develop. Even children with developmental disabilities develop—just on our own schedules and in our own ways.
