Popular blogger Han Han, the Holden Caulfield of his generation, describes it thus: “Most parents won’t allow their school-age children to date, and many are even opposed to their children dating when in college, but as soon as the kid graduates, the parents pray that all of a sudden, someone perfect in every respect — and if possible with an apartment of their own to boot — will drop out of heaven, and their child must marry them right away. Now, that’s well thought out, isn’t it?”

