The same thing is true with deadlines, whether work or personal. If they’re hanging over your head, they’re all you’re going to focus on, at the expense of everything (and everyone) else in your life. And the worst part? You might not even realize you’re focusing on whatever’s hanging over your head. You might truly try to be present. But you won’t be, and the person (or persons) you’re with will notice, possibly before you do.
