It’s not about calling her beautiful. It’s how you say it. When you call her beautiful, you are pulling every word she is into one: smart, funny, shy, confident, curvy, tall, small, inspiring, strong, kind, and every other thing you love about her. You cannot call her beautiful unless you say it in a way that makes her feel like she can do anything. You cannot call her beautiful unless you say it like it’s the last thing you will ever say.

