I recommend boiling your priorities down to a small number of things—around one for each of you, and two that you share. You probably have more priorities than this but make an effort to zero in on your one selfish, personal priority. Then give each other more leeway to spend on that one thing. So maybe the baby cushion and Fiji trip turn into shared priorities, while the coworking space is yours. Meanwhile, the coding classes are your partner’s.
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