Details – Don’t waste your time pining for unimportant details (such as whether the bike is Bobby’s, or even whether it’s green). Moreover, know that all details are unimportant. You can want them, just don’t insist upon them. Hows – Surrender and let go of how you think, or how you may want, your dream to come true—these are the “cursed hows.” Specific people – Release yourself of any expectations you may have for the specific behavior of specific people.
