instructions of Guru Tegh Bahadur on sexual matters: ‘As long as you live, love your wife more, and ever more. Never go near the wife of another man, even in your dreams. Never ever covet another man’s wife. To desire the love, or to love, another man’s wife is like a sharp blade—it is to invite death into your body. To make love to another man’s wife is to embrace death. There are those who think themselves very clever by making love to another man’s wife—in the end, they will die like dogs. And so I say unto you,