Minimalist Homeschooling: A values-based approach to maximize learning and minimize stress

by Zara Fagen

Some time ago, somebody started glorifying mothers who burn the candle at both ends. It has to stop. Don’t get me wrong, I am not advocating for self-centered mothering (which is a complete oxymoron). There will absolutely be times when the needs of those in your family, your business, or your home will supersede your own needs – probably on a daily basis. But being super-mom means setting a good example of what a healthy and content life looks like. Would you want your daughter to grow up to believe that her value lies in how much of her health she sacrifices for others? Then why is that an appropriate mindset for you? Why would it be admirable to sacrifice your sleep, your exercise, your rest, or your meals in order to complete tasks? Rest is a priority so that you stay healthy; and, it is a priority so that you can act with positive energy, ease, efficiency, and quality. Accept it – rest is required, and it is a priority.