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John Tiffany
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July 20 - July 20, 2025
People say parenting is the hardest job in the world — they’re wrong — growing up is. We all just forget how hard it was.
Harry, there is never a perfect answer in this messy, emotional world. Perfection is beyond the reach of humankind, beyond the reach of magic. In every shining moment of happiness is that drop of poison: the knowledge that pain will come again. Be honest to those you love, show them your pain. To suffer is as human as to breathe.
Those that we love never truly leave us, Harry. There are things that death cannot touch. Paint . . . and memory . . . and love.
There is no escaping the past.
Love blinds. We have both tried to give our sons not what they needed, but what we needed. We’ve been so busy trying to rewrite our own pasts, we’ve blighted their present.