I try to understand when people tell me they enjoy it, when women my age say they miss being called names or when they get a kick out of being called to so explicitly: I wanna fuck your asshole. (I was wearing a down coat.) I’d like to put my cock between those titties. Ugly cunt, I’m talking to you! I know what it’s like to feel invisible as a child and I imagine it feels the same as an adult. But it’s a pretty sorry situation when the choice is either objectification by intimidating strangers or invisibility.
