then they are important enough to merit your undivided attention when you are engaged with them. No cellphone. No instant messaging. No texting. No watching the TV in your peripheral vision. Your relationships are important and they need to be treated accordingly. Hang on to their every word. You’ll be pleasantly surprised with the reaction you get from people when you give them your full attention. (Additional reading, “Most Emergencies Aren’t”: minimalists.com/emergencies.)
