two ways to cut loose from the anchor of certainty so you can change your life. First, you can find a way to associate more pain with not changing. You can do so by looking at the potential loss of meaning in your life—the loss of not accomplishing what you truly want to accomplish, the loss of not pursuing your passion, the loss of not living your mission. The reality is that the long-term pain of regret far outweighs the short-term pleasure of certainty. Second, you can associate more pleasure with the long-term fulfillment of pursuing your passions and living your mission. Either option—or
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