You can find everything you want in a person, but if they also carry a belief or value you must not have in your life, it can ruin the entire relationship. For example, say you find an intimate relationship and the other person appears to have everything you want, except they are unsupportive. If an unsupportive person is something you must not have, then that relationship will not work long-term. Now, make your list of things that must not occur in your relationships.
