If you do not curse back when cursed (Romans 12:14), it disarms and de-escalates the argument. If you respond gently, there’s a chance the angry listener may say, “I don’t want to hear this, but it’s very obvious this person cares.” Ironically, gentle speech is ultimately more persuasive than “so take that!” arguments. Harsh words play well with people who already agree with you, but they won’t persuade or help the truth to spread. Follow the one who, when he was reviled, did not revile in return
