BAD Avoid facing “harsh realities.” GOOD Face “harsh realities.” BAD Worry about appearing good. GOOD Worry about achieving the goal. BAD Make your decisions on the basis of first-order consequences. GOOD Make your decisions on the basis of first-, second-, and third-order consequences. BAD Allow pain to stand in the way of progress. GOOD Understand how to manage pain to produce progress. BAD Don’t hold yourself and others accountable. GOOD Hold yourself and others accountable.
