To have a child was the most difficult decision I ever made, because I couldn’t know what the experience would be like and it would be irrevocable. It turned out to be my best decision.
Or if he referred to himself as the grantor :) Yes that is odd - though he has been trying hard to keep his wife and kids out of the book so maybe related to that.
I also found it odd that it was *his* decision, and not a decision that he and his wife made together.