You may lose your temper with a person who is having catastrophic reactions or is unable to do what seems like a simple task. This usually will make the person’s behavior worse. Losing your temper occasionally is not a calamity; take a deep breath and try to approach the problem calmly. The person will probably forget your anger much more quickly than you will. Try not to express your frustration or anger to the person who has dementia. Your frustration will further upset him when he cannot understand your reaction. Speak calmly. Take things one step at a time. Move slowly and quietly.
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