This is when we lost our humanity. I’d open my phone and look at my contacts and only one or two were still alive. They told us, “If someone dies, don’t delete his number. Just change his name to ‘Martyr.’” That way, if you got a text from that number, you knew that someone else had gotten hold of the phone and might be using it to entrap you. So I’d open my contact list and it was all Martyr, Martyr, Martyr . . .