You can’t sit alone in a room and decide what your passion is. Passion comes from doing, testing, and seeing what happens. On top of that, the idea of passion has been overstated. You’ve been told that anything less than pure happiness, joy, and contentment doesn’t equal passion. You’ve also been told you should feel super passionate about your “calling,” right away. “Find something you love and you’ll never have to work another day in your life.” The truth is you’re more likely to feel passionate after you get good at something.