Vulnerable reflection. We reach out to each other and say things like “something incredible is happening,” “I don’t know,” “I fucked up,” “I think I hurt someone,” “I’m overwhelmed,” “I’m terrified,” “I think I’m hurting,” “I’m lost,” “Am I falling in/out of love?,” “_____ happened, what should I do?,” “I want to do something new/different/marvelous/dangerous/that feels essential to my soul—help!,” and so on. We ask others to be mirrors for us at our most vulnerable places, so we can see what we are learning, see new possibilities in our lives.
