We are socialized to see what is wrong, missing, off, to tear down the ideas of others and uplift our own. To a certain degree, our entire future may depend on learning to listen, listen without assumptions or defenses. So I am open to hearing what doesn’t work about this book, as long as you promise to stay open to what does work.
A beautiful sentiment — if I expect others not to be defensive about what I propose, I should start with myself. Listen first and expect from others second. The primary ingredient for this mutually beneficial engagement is openness on both sides.
