People with Alzheimer’s or dementia are often unable to control their own behavior, even when they are trying as hard as they can. This means that neither you nor they can prevent problems from arising. However, the attitude that you bring to the encounter can impact their behavior. Their well-being often depends upon your well-being. If you are in a hurry or if you are irritable, people with dementia are likely to sense these feelings. Frequently, like small children, they become anxious and resistant. Your calm presence, accompanied by compassionate touch, can often provide a sense of order
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