Gay men who actively participate in frequent anonymous or casual sexual hookups are loath to call what they are doing an addiction, but the signs are all there. If you look just beneath the surface, you find a life that is consumed with pursuing sex. They need the sex to make life livable, and in the process, often destroy the best things in their life. Relationship after relationship falls apart because they either have an affair or become so miserable when the relationship cools off sexually that they feel compelled to find a new supplier of the drug they crave, walking away from lover after
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