F*cked: Being Sexually Explorative and Self-Confident in a World That's Screwed

by Krystyna Hutchinson

Become familiar with your flaws and actively work to fix them (that way you get to call yourself out before others do!).

Have a sense of humor, especially toward the dark shit.

Enjoy sex, and don’t be afraid to place importance on sexual compatibility in your relationship.

Appreciate your body—it houses your soul. If you don’t, figure out the steps you need to take to get there. Your body is your packaging. You have to see it every day so you might as well like it.

Try new stuff. Sexual stuff. Unless it absolutely appalls you or involves people or things you know you’re not emotionally ready for—and may never be—you might surprise yourself and find that having icing licked off your clit is even more satisfying than licking icing off a cake.

Always keep in mind that another person’s success or good looks or sex drive or income is not a reflection of what you lack.

Being yourself, freely and unapologetically, makes you sexy, and bonus: it’s free as fuck!

Be a good listener.

Listen to the people you disagree with. Listen to your sexual partner. Listen to your kids. Having a voice is important, but it’s amazing how much you can learn by shutting the hell up every once in a while.

Love yourself; it’s easier than you think. You’re like, pretty cool.

so let’s remind ourselves as often as possible to enjoy our sexuality and respect the sexuality of others. Sex is such a beautiful part of being human and if we all stopped worrying about what everyone else thinks and focused on honestly communicating how we feel and what we want, the world would be a better place.