1. Dad is in charge—no debates over authority in his house (but be patient, ask questions, and listen when they talk). 2. No fights over food—they eat what you eat, though maybe with a dash of color. 3. No fights over hairstyle or clothes—go shopping with them and buy clothes that guard their modesty. 4. No being bored—do fun things on the weekends. 5. Make sure they have a bedtime/curfew when they get older.