Niharika: I want to live again (count your chicken before you lay them Book 2)

by Arun Prabhu- aradhya

There is a thin line between arrogance and intelligence… and quitting for a short time didn’t meant failure….!!!

They say addiction is a way of escaping from yourself…

people don’t listen to what you say … they do what they watch you do…!!!”

life is like this record…. There are ups and downs… crests and troughs … and both are necessary in life to make a beautiful song…. But sometimes we get stuck up with some incidents in life and like the music record the incident keeps repeating itself in our minds…..”

When you love someone deeply ego disappears…..!!!”

“Any strength carried to extremity becomes a weakness….”

Personality Plus” by Florence Litteur and also “Personality Plus for Couples”

we are responsible for what we are today it is true as well as false. True, because we have knowingly or unknowingly programmed our future. False because any activity done by ignorance is forgiven by the almighty and if we forgive ourselves and learn from our mistakes we can create the same future what we want.”

the day we rise above the temperamental control is the day we start our journey within….”

IT IS BETTER TO BE WRONG AND HAVE THE RELATIONSHIP THAN BE RIGHT AND RIGHT ALONE.”

Love never fades away it gets buried somewhere beneath the differences of temperaments and ego will not let us accept that……

We in this world are so busy correcting others that we do not have time to correct ourselves.

“If God has created the variety there is a purpose. Let’s not disturb that. Only human beings have been gifted the quality of understanding and empathy. Let’s understand others strengths and work as per their strengths and compensate their weaknesses with our strengths. Not only would we make a wonderful family but a wonderful team in any organization and eventually a wonderful society and a planet to live in.”

Changing the world is a humongous task…. Changing our views is much easier…

They say if you need to change your life you need to be committed to change…..

If you just change yourself the world changes with you….. The green goggle…. Sometimes we hear things but do not digest them….!!!

“And, when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.” ― Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist

“We do not get what we wish but what we expect.”

We do not drive by looking into the back mirror. The back mirror is only for experience. Many a times the pot holes of the past haunt us so much that we miss the exotic scenery of the future.

There is nothing called as Mr. Right. We do not find the right relationship. Instead of finding the right partner, if we focus on building the right partnerships things would be much better....

Loneliness is a mental block ... It is a habit and an addiction… get out of that addiction as soon as possible...!!!

just say take responsibility of your life. It is ok to make mistakes. But blaming someone else for the mistakes is like shrugging responsibilities.”

Everything in this universe happens for a reason. “Who you are speaks so loudly I can't hear what you're saying.

“Life is very precious and you are more precious. Do not ever think of giving up.”

Why do people stick to grudges? It is a very heavy feeling. Just release it unconditionally and you will feel much lighter.

The joys of life are very simple and we try to find them in complex gadgets…..

Has technology helped us become more efficient or made us more impatient. That’s a debate.

They say a women can judge between love and lust. Maybe they have this sixth sense or maybe it is a survival instinct.

The future we see are the images of the footsteps we leave behind in the sands of time….!!!

How strange it is… the uncertainty of future always haunts us… it is our attitude which decides to assume the best or the worst…..!!!

God never created perfect human beings. Rather to say a perfect world. He created imperfect people with different perfections to compliment, supplement and complete each other.”

that the strength lied inside everyone and being a hero is more of an internal struggle, it is the way we deal with situations and the fight inside to do what is right and the intentions we have. Inside every imperfect person is a perfect person and it is the journey to find this perfect person inside is what is called life.

“Even Spiderman farts… if he doesn’t he is not a man. But movies and comic books won’t show or write.”

we compromise we will never be happy. If we accept we will never be sad.”

We do not get what we want… we get what we expect.”

if she wants to go on with her ideology, let her go, let her be responsible for her decisions. But when she fails let her know you are there as a moral support. That way she will grow mentally and become stronger.”

“We should learn parenting from nature. You know why animals are the best parents. Because they do not teach theoretically. They teach by showing.”

We see the problems of the world through our perception of the world. Change your perception and the world will change for you.”

They say the teacher is always there. They only appear when the student is ready….

When we are in a negative mode everything becomes negative. We require more efforts to get results. At the same time when we are in positive mode everything looks rosy and less efforts are required to achieve better results.

Lead by example. That’s what I learnt and now I was practicing that.

“Everything happens for a reason.”

We are the ones who stand in between ourselves and our land of dreams with our mental blocks and one of the mental block is age. Age is like a black hole which sucks all our rays of hope. Stop counting age and start working on your dreams.

“They say love dies after you become familiar. Love never dies. It gets buried under misunderstandings caused by not understanding the basic temperaments and love languages of each other.”

Love is never lost…. It gets buried somewhere below the misunderstandings of temperaments and difference of languages. Take professional help always. Ego is not good for love….

“Couples who do not lose their individuality but at the same time blend with each other go a long way in relationship. Everyone is a unique person and discovering each other every day is more strengthening than smothering each other to death.”

As they say life is simple we make it complex… I add marriages are simple we make it complex.

Sex without emotions is lust… and lust can never be satisfied. Sex with emotions is love….”

How technology is overpowering our lives. The first thing we do when we get up is check messages as if it is we are doctors on emergency duty and there is emergency everyday.

“One day brain said to heart why do you keep sending messages to people without reasons… mind said you need reasons.. I need relations.