When she walked into Jared’s study and caught him watching a panting blonde on his screen, she just rolled her eyes and joked that he needed a new hobby. But when the woman said, “Where’d you go, Jared? Did you finish?” she realized that he was on Skype. “The worst part of it is that he’s trying to convince me it isn’t cheating,” she tells me. “He calls it customized pornography.”