marriage is “two flawed people coming together to create a space of stability, love and consolation.” Rather, they are looking for someone who will accept them as they are, complement their abilities, and fulfill their sexual and emotional desires. “A marriage based not on self-denial but on self-fulfillment will require a low—or no—maintenance partner who meets your needs while making almost no claims on you. Simply put—today people are asking far too much in the marriage partner.”7
