Are you beginning to see just how prevalent this map is in our society? Once you know what the map says, you start to see it everywhere. It’s in songs about believing in yourself, following your dreams, looking inside to find the hero within, or learning to love yourself. It’s in books where the main character casts off anything from the outside that pressures him or her into conformity. It’s in our churches, where God is summoned to help us become whoever we really want to be.